Welcome and thank you for stopping by.

I know you're probably thinking, "That just can't be true! How can I get a man to marry me in 100 days when so many guys are afraid of commitment?"

You have every right to be skeptical as I was when I first got started online. There are tons of information on the internet that promises a quick fix...and there is alot of hype.  But I want to tell you - your love life could depend on this information.

Are you constantly failing to get a man to open up, share the way he feels about you and connect with you on a deeper emotional level? 

See if any of these dating frustrations apply to you...

1. You're sick and tired of playing the game with men and want to know how to attract the man of your dreams.
2. You tried to have the "talk" with your boyfriend about where the relationship is going and it backfired.  Your man seems non-committal.
3. You're frustrated and angry that you've been with your man for a while and he's no where near wanting to marry you.
4. Your man seems withdrawn and distant, your relationship is in a danger zone and you're worried he's going to breakup with you.
5. Your love life is on the rocks.  You want to know how to make men or your man want you more or call you more often.  You're tired of chasing men.
6. You want your man to spend more time with you and you've tried to talk to him about it but he's not responding the way you want.
7. You want to know how to get your relationship to work.  You want to finally stop being desperate and afraid and feel secure in a love that will last a life-time.

If you are currently dating or in a long-term relationship, you're probably wondering if your boyfriend is thinking about marrying you.  If you're still single, I know you're frustrated because you want to find your dream guy.

I want to share with you a recent email from a subscriber that powerfully describes the gut-wrenching emotional pain based on her experience with men and relationships:

"I could not resist the urge to meet with him, hoping that this time would be different, and of course, it was the same old thing.  I deeply regret wasting my time meeting with him because all it did was reopen those gaping wounds which have been healing for a year.  I just think it was an ego boost for him that he was able to lie to me by saying he missed me and still loved me and was planning a trip for us in order to get me to meet him out.  It's just a game for him and he has no regard for my feelings at all. It's just left me feeling deeply sad, rejected, worthless and lonely all over again."

Many women get stuck in a form of addictive emotional roller coaster, fear-based pattern.  This is like going through hell!  It is totally exhausting because it uses up all of your emotional energy when you're trying to  keep up with getting a man's love.   In return, you end up ALWAYS feeling  TOTALLY WORTHLESS.

Wake-Up Call

Today IS your wake-up call. You can stop failing in relationships and start making permanent and lasting change.

Allow me to introduce myself.  My name is Nicole Gayle and I have been coaching women all over the world for a number of years now. But I spent many years being addicted to failing in relationships.

When I was caught up in going through the hell of constantly feeling like a powerless victim, I didn't realize my emtional patterns and internal beliefs were killing my chances of finding and keeping love.

I always ended up in a pattern of devasting failure and always thought it was because the men I was dating were Jerks.

I blamed men after men telling myself it was their fault and it led to a vicious and ugly cycle that brought me many years of pain.

I was really mixed up about love but I got beyond all that and cleared away the BLOCKS that stood in my way and I became a dating coach to help you win in your relationship.

Recently my girlfriend called me a "Cold Bitch"...I laughed and said, "Thank you!" She wanted my opinion on a man she just started seeing and I helped her see that she didn't need to disqualify herself by making a bad decision. 

If you are caught up in wanting a man's constant approval because of your intense feelings for him,  I want you to take a moment and think about how your ideas about love and relationships were formed.  Think about your childhood.  What did love look and feel like when you were a child?

The answer to this formed your current beliefs about love and if you're willing to be honest, these INTERNAL PROGRAMS will tell you why you're not getting what you want.

It doesn't matter if you consciously want a better relationship, it really doesn't. Because if you aren't willing to deal with the CORE issues holding you back from finding and keeping love, you will always fail.  Guaranteed.

It also doesn't matter if you spend hundreds of dollars on a program that promises you a magic formula.  This is equivalent to putting makeup on a dirty face.

In order to look fabulous, you have to start with a clean face.

You will NOT get Commitment or Marriage if...

 You are desperate for it

I have read stacks and stack of books on information about  love and commitment because I wanted to learn WHY I was always failing.  I got sick of bleeding emotionally and I WANTED IT TO STOP!

Many of these "manuals" sold me on solving my problem by focusing on getting a guy to respond to me.

If you want to spend your money on other relationship "gurus" this is quite ok with me.

Because I'm not here to tell you BS to get you to buy my program.  As a matter of fact, you should leave this page and really think about all I am telling you about men and love before you decide to do anything.  Sleep on it first.

See what many of these backyard "gurus" don't tell you is....you need to FIX you.  An amazing author said, "everthing you experience is a mirror of your inner thoughts and beliefs" Fly by night "advisors" don't tell you the real truth because they want to quickly scam you into buying a band-aid solution to a much deeper problem.

It's like popping a pill for a headache without dealing with why you are having it.

It just wont help you in the long run.

The minute you FIX your inner game, you will have results like MAGIC.  But you can't have the magic until you start with you.

The magic comes when you shift into the mindset that gets you results. When you do, things will start happening for you so fast, you'll wonder why you didn't think of being, acting and doing the things that get you results before.  A man who's known you as desperate or needy will look at you stunned!  He'll think, "What the hell happened to her?" 

It's always nice to see a man's jaw drop to the floor when you literally cast a spell on him BECAUSE you fixed what was wrong with you. 

What 95% of Women do to Get Marriage and Commitment

Here's what most women do when it comes to trying to create a "deep level desire for commitment" in a man...

a)"Tell him I want a commitment"

b) "Play hard to get" 

c) "Tell him about the way I am feeling about him"

d) "Ask him where the relationship is going"

e) "Use sneaky ways to get his attention"

f) "Dress sexy or talk dirty to him"

h) "Move in with him"

If your way of thinking is anywhere close to the answer that many women have, you will NOT get a commitment from a man and you will not get him to marry you.  Even worst...he may dump you or withdraw when you go fishing around to know where things stand.

Shocking Statistics

The percentage of single women is alarming.  An article from the New York Times asked the hard question, "Why are there so many Single Americans?"

According to the article in 2007, 51% of women are now living without a spouse. 

"In 2005, 51 percent of women said they were living without a spouse, up from 35 percent in 1950 and 49 percent in 2000. Prof. Stephanie Coontz, director of public education for the Council on Contemporary Families, a nonprofit research group."

According to the US Census Bureau, 54% of unmarried and single Americans are women.  

Are you asking yourself the following questions:

What these men really mean...they don’t want hidden patterns of behavior that many "NORMAL" women carry around without even knowing that SHOW up on a man's mental tapes. 

And the most interesting thing you need to know…these men would do ANYTHING to be in a great relationship because men secretly want love.  They don't want to be alone.

This means having an amazing connection because you have tapped into a man’s emotional world by enabling him to be a better man because of the way he feels about you. This “secret” space in a man’s heart NEEDS to respond to certain behaviors BEFORE a man will want to want to fall in love and commit for life!

Even more shocking is the admission that they want commitment as much as women do - MARRIAGE.  This flies right in the face of the stereotype that men are afraid of long-term commitment.

These men are NOT afraid to commit - they WANT to commit to a woman who gives them an intoxicating FEELING.  They want to literally FEEL the woman even when she's not around and a man will DO ANYTHING to find that "FEELING"

The alarming truth is there are SO many great men wanting to commit to the right woman…but it’s almost as if…that woman needs to understand how to capture a man’s heart and cause him to be so drawn to her, he’ll make her his wife.

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